Custody

The model is the same.
The paper is not.

A consumer account is decided by settings. A business tenant is decided by a contract. Hardware you own is decided by nothing. That comparison comes before features.

QuestionConsumer accountBusiness contractYour hardware
Who decidesA settings page you can missA contract you signedNo counterparty
Where the file sitsTheir region, their diskA region named in the orderThe machine in your room
Training on what you typeOften on, or opt-out buriedUsually off by contractDoes not arise
When it is wrongA chat you cannot produceLogs if you negotiated themA record you can read

Vendor terms move. Self-hosting open weights ends the custody question — it does not end the operational one. That is the work.